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Well, let's see. It's been over 2 years since I last posted the goings on in my life. I have to admit, I've missed LJ the whole time. It's comforting to know I still have support out there for the readings of my blog entries and people are content at my return. Between Myspace and LJ, it was almost like having a time share....only it took a little longer than anticipated to get back here. Anyway, enough of the sentiments. I'm back, so to business I will get to. I suppose I'll start by briefly filling everyone in on what's been going on with my life. Juicy details will follow later.
As far as my work life goes, I've been with the same company for almost 3 years, (July 7th will be the 3 year mark). I'm still in training to be a General Manager. 3 months ago, I was transferred to a store 20 minutes away from my house under the guise that it would further advance my career and provide more oppourtunities in terms of hours and support. So far so good. I work more hours, got a raise out of it and despite the shitty economy, the employment's solid.
Outside of that, my car was repossessed back in November. As painful as that situation was, I really have noone to blame but myself and.....it's not the end of the world. I was not practicing good judgement when I decided to buy that car. A car that was almost as expensive to insure as it was to pay for every month. So, I tentatively let the bank take it back. In doing so, I am saving $810.00 per month, which is good because I can always save up for another car. The downside of course is the deficiency. Toyota did take a 17,000 car and sell it for 9,000!!! I am responsible for the rest. My defense against that was filing for Chapter 7 bankruptcy. So....I am 25 and broke with no car, a credit score that just had the shit beaten out of it and my tail between my legs. However, I like to look at this as a positive opportunity to start from scratch! Everything in this life happens for a reason, and I believe that circumstances played themselves out in this situation in order to filter out what was not for the Greater Good. That car...as much as I loved it was a hungry beast indeed and despite having to file for Bankruptcyk, I am ever happier to be rid of it.
In terms of my love life, 3 1/2 years later and I am still with Tim. We have...experienced some minor turbulance and I more intimately have experienced some roller coaster loops. My relationship with Tim I have to say has faired rather well. I look back on all of it now and realize that the problems that we've had in the past 3 years have been average couple related issues which have been surmountable. And all i have to say is that now...despite everything that has happened we are together and happy. My dealings with Chris on the other hand......that is officially over. Dead. Caput! No hopes of resucitation. We've tried being friends, comrads, friends with benefits. There was even a time when we tried to rekindle our romantic relationship, yet to no avail. Sorry. Game's Over. "Go" is not an option and there is no $200.00. Ah well. So be it. Neither of us needs the bullshit or all the baggage that comes along with it. I read this little diddy the other day that said "Mind over Matter, baby. I don't mind and you don't matter".
This entry is all I have the energy for today. There will be more posts. Hopefully sooner than later. It's good to be back.
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